Virtual communities have been a part of my life since I’ve been able to get on the internet but my involvement with virtual communities has changed over time. I define a virtual community as an area of virtual space that is focused on an interest, is updated on a semi-regular basis, has more than one person involved in it, has rules and regulations for belonging to the community and the majority of the updates are in the virtual space. I don’t want to cut off any communities that may have started in real space, because I think it is possible for a community to grow beyond its original intent if given a virtual space.
I have tried many types of virtual communities, such as online MUDs, chatrooms (from AOL to IRC), online games, livejournal, my old blog, this current blog, facebook, myspace, too many to list. It does take up some of my time to keep up with everything, and depending on my lifestyle at the moment, sometimes I just lurk without giving back to the community. At this point in time in my life, my interactions with my virtual communities is much lower than it was a few years back. One reason this is happening is because I started living with my boyfriend and we are making plans to get married soon, so my priorities are focused on my personal life, and learning to build a life with him. However, I think I am more active with my communities than I am with my good friends because I live far away from them and can’t visit them.
My current communities (in no particular order) include:
- Aion (an online MMORPG game)
- ONTD (a celebrity gossip community on livejournal)
- My current blog (DTC 475 and DTC 375)
- beauty101 (beauty advice community on livejournal)
- games (Mafia Wars and CafeWorld)
- random shady sites that I choose not to share, ha

Daninja killing a bird in Aion
Most of these communities have some sort of barrier against joining, but once you fulfill their requirements, they are relatively welcoming to new members. Aion requires a member to buy the software, pay a subscription fee, and to follow their game rules (no botting, hacking or selling in-game items/characters for real money). However, once you start playing, there are guilds you can join, but they typically have restrictions and expect you to have certain skills. A serious guild might ask a member to fill out an application, be above level 25, be over 18 years old, have experience with PvP (player versus player fighting) and be an active user (someone who plays regularly and preferably for long periods of time). Other guilds just wan
t maturity (don’t kill your friend, don’t steal) and be willing to help the guild (help members with missions, share loot, etc). It really depends on how serious you are about the game. Since I’m a typical casual gamer, I don’t belong to an amazing high-ranked guild, but I still have fun without the commitment.
In contrast, ONTD has rules, and serious mods that will make sure you obey them or risk getting banned. When you try to sign up for this community, you have to be an active livejournal member, belong to some other communities, post on your journal regularly or post to other communities otherwise you won’t get in. Once you are in, there are rules about posting similar gossip stories, posting porn (only if it is a gossip story and marked NSFW), posting about banned celebrities (Heidi and Spencer) and posting the dreaded comment, “FIRST”. Beyond that, it is a free for all, rude comments are welcomed, snarky gifs and macros are exulted and having an amazing userpic is practically required. Good spelling and grammar is not required, but a comment will probably be ridiculed to death if it is not on purpose.
When I think about the kinds of experiences I have had that were almost purely virtual, I think of my gaming communities because it was very easy to feel like you are a part of a community. When I first started playing Aion, I learned what it was like to play without your gaming group. Part of the difficulty in starting a new game is getting to know people who are on at the same time and have a similar playing style. I usually would post messages in the [General] chat area for the game and also in my character’s job chat area so I could ask questions about how to choose a weapon, stats, etc. Unlike my previous game, Tabula Rasa, it was extraordinarily hard to find a group to work with by just chatting up people. Most people had an affiliation with a group from other games, and so it was difficult to get into a “good” group without knowing someone already in the group or filling out an application. Since I was unaffiliated with anyone, I found that I made more progress by asking for help with a mission, and then sticking with the group after the mission was completed. I found that I ended up on more people’s friend list in this way because I was helpful and we had a good gaming session. However I rarely got the same gaming friendships that I got from my old game.

Daninja in front of Tabula Rasa line
During my time playing Tabula Rasa, I had a completely different experience, which I partially blame on the size of the player base, and how dedicated people were to this game. In comparison to WoW, this game wasn’t popular, and the player base was small. Since people were always looking for people to group up with, it was easier to find a group to perform a mission, and if you were wandering around, it wasn’t too hard to find someone in need of help (from cockroach-like aliens). I also found that becoming affiliated with a larger group was much easier as well because there were more casual gamers who just wanted to have some fun, rather than get into the serious PvP. In comparison to Aion, I had in-game friends that would say hi when I came online, and we would e-mail each other outside of the game with interesting videos, pictures, etc. that we found on the internet. Most of my Tabula Rasa friends also were on my facebook and myspace pages. Even though I have never met any of my gaming friends in real space, I enjoyed their company when I was playing.
Although I never met any of my gaming friends from Aion or Tabula Rasa, I have met friends from previous games, and I felt that the experience both enhanced and detracted from my gaming experience. Obviously people looked a lot different from their online personas, and in some cases, not even the same sex. We had a great time meeting each other, but afterward it was a little difficult for me to separate the person that I met from the online persona. I still keep in touch with some of the people that I met at the game convention, but most of them I have lost track of once I left the game.